SEX CAPSULE:- My Husband visit my OTHER ROOM once in a Month". Host :- Omofoye Mayowa

                                   "My Husband Visit my OTHER ROOM Once in a Month"

Welcome to today's episode of sex capsule. I'm your regular host,Omofoye Mayowa. Our topic for discussion today is Marriage and fixing a sex time table. Do you think its right? Why do couples go for this option?

Keeping the passion and spark alive in a marriage long term is quite a challenge, no matter how intimate you and your partner were in the beginning of your relationship.Sex in marriage is  in many ways the lifeline between you and your partner’s emotional attachment. So, make it increasingly important to include times for marriage intimacy in your weekly routine.

    Whether weekly or fortnightly, preparing a schedule or a time table has kept so many homes alive. However,it does not work in some homes. What works for home A may not work for home B.The most important thing is for one to find out what will work out in ones home.

    Many are of the opinion that sex works with feelings,emotions,happiness, attractiveness, how one is able to control ones body and other things. If a partner is stressed out,especially a lady,the man can do other things to distract the two of them. He can take the lady for an holiday, to the beach; he can cook dinner or do any romantic thing.

     Some people believe drawing a time table for sex is a boring way of living a family life. Sex should be spontaneous, fun and mutual; however, it should not be abused.
    Couples decide to option in for scheduled sexual interaction for many reaons which include time,job,etc. Some writers' opinion about having a time table to have sex as a couple is below;

    Lisa Brinkworth and husband Joseph set the alarm for 5am on Saturdays to make time for sex .  At 5am every Saturday, the alarm goes off and my husband Joseph gently nudges me awake. I try to ignore the alarm and my husband, but eventually I force myself  to respond.I may be exhausted, but it’s time for our weekly bedroom activity.I would far rather grab another hour’s sleep before our three young boys come bounding in, but I know this is the only opportunity we’ll have to rekindle the romance that eludes us in the hurried chaos of everyday life.We are one of a growing number of couples having scheduled sex because if we didn’t pre-arrange our intimate time together, there simply wouldn’t be any.My husband works long hours as an accountant and I write during the school day.

When the boys arrive home, we start the round of after-school activities, homework, supper, bath and bedtime.I barely notice Joseph arrive home as I hurl uniforms in the washing machine, load the dishwasher and start cooking dinner. In place of the glass of wine and conversation we shared pre-children, I check homework and replace sports’ kit before meeting work deadlines while Joseph dozes in an armchair.It’s well after midnight by the time we get to bed, exhausted. And six hours later it’s time to start the whole thing over again.Getting just 60 minutes alone together requires military precision, but, after a prolonged dry spell of no sex at all for six months, we realised that we simply had to make time to make love.

We decided to pick the same time each week as then we’d know there was always something to look forward to.It may seem like the middle of the night, but early Saturday morning seemed to be the optimum moment for intimacy for us as there was no danger of being intruded upon by small boys and I’m not preoccupied with urgent pre-school chores.No matter how tired we are when the alarm goes off, we agree that precious hour brings us close again at the end of a week where we barely see each other.And, let’s face it, there are certainly worse ways tostart the weekend.

Paul Connolly, 50, is a journalist. He has eight-month-old twin daughters with his girlfriend, Donna. They also have four cats. He says:I have no idea how couples have sex without scheduling. Even before our twin girls arrived lastsummer, our lives were too busy to not schedule time together. Setting time aside for hanky-panky has been the only way to have any kind of sex life.At first, stupidly, we tried to set aside a couple of weekday evenings. But that was a frustrating waste of time.By the appointed hour, 9.30pm at the earliest, once home from work and fed, we were far too frazzled to do anything other than sit in front of the TV. After just two weeks, we figured that particular time slot wasn’t working.+6Paul Connolly, 50, is a journalist. He has eight-month-old twin daughters with his girlfriend, Donna.

The couple set aside time at the weekends to keep the flame aliveWe soon learned that for working couples, weekends are the only sensible option. We blocked off a one-hour window on Saturday and Sunday and stuck to it. TV off, phones on silent. That was our time.Sure, such an arrangement lacked spontaneity, but if you’ll only settle for spontaneity and fireworks, then it isn’t ever going to happen.Now with two eight-month-old smashers in the house, it’s even more of a challenge. Every day is like our old weekdays. If one of the twins is napping, the other one is sure to be awake. Some days we don’t even have time to shower. So thesedays, our sex scheduling has gone up a notch.The only way to have ‘us-time’ is to schedule a whole night together.

 And that means getting the grandparents involved once every couple of weeks.The children spend a night with them and we have a night with each other, usually in a hotel to offer a welcome change of scenery.We do have less time together than before, but it’s of a better quality. And just as much fun.

   Whether you are making a time table for sex with your partner or not, the most important thing is for couples to find out what works out best for them
Till next week when we discuss another interesting marital topic

,I remain Mayowa






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