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MARITAL DELAY

.Marriage is a bliss if it happened at a proper timing. But then, it becomes curve if it's not done at suitable age.
Some fathers had deceived and disappointed many girls during their youthful age about marriage, God would make their daughters to suffer marital delay for them to also suffer the pains when their daughters are matured enough to marry.

Some ladies are possessed with evil spirits like spiritual husbands or “spiritual concubines”, they would find it extremely cumbersome to get married as the spiritual husband is jealous and can even kill anyone attempting to marry the girl, disclosing that many girls have already given birth to many children spiritually but are physically yet unmarried.

“Sometimes a lady would sleep and the spirit concubine would come in the dream, feed her and start sleeping with her. They will do everything possible to make sure that she doesn’t get married only for them to be sleeping with her in the dream and this can cause marital delay,”
The Research made us to understand that prostitution is also an obstacle to timely marriage arguing that when a lady is over used by different men under the umbrella of pre-marital sex she losses her value and looks old, adding that God is no longer involved in her marital affairs because she has already slept with different men.

Pride has also left many women unmarried as they refuse to accept the will of God over their lives. Expert advised such ladies who claim to be more than every man that comes their way to have a rethink as they may be disappointed and regret later. In the Nigerian society, the family play an important role in ensuring a lady gets married.

In Nigeria ,every girl wish to get married on time; but why do some ladies get married late? What are the causes of late marriage and how can they be prevented?

*Bad attitude* Some ladies do not relate well with guys. Ladies who disrespect guys can only have boyfriends but it will be difficult for them to have an husband. A bad character will only chase men away from a lady.

Some ladies play hard to get and this also causes marital delay

Dirtiness. A lady should be tidy always. The underwear should be kept clean. Your private part should be kept clean to avoid odour that will chase guys away. As a lady, you should also go extra miles to beautify yourself as most men are also attracted by beauty. You should know how to package yourself neatly.

Some ladies find it difficult to smile. Friendliness does not mean being a flirt. As a lady, you should always be kind and polite to guys who propose to you. It is actually a good thing you are being appreciated by a guy.

Always pray to God to assist you by directing your partner to you and not someone that will play with you.

Sometimes, we need to put aside the high standards we have set for ourselves. If you find a person who loves you and gives you peace and happiness,go for him or her. Beauty, wealth, educational or social background, physique, etc should not be the major things one is finding in one's partner, although they are also important.

Socialise. It is very important you attend social gatherings and stop staying indoors all the time.

Consequences of Late Marriage

A lady who is matured enough to go into marriage but does not have the opportunity suffers psychological trauma, reproach, loss of sense of belonging, depression, pains and mockery.

Infertility. Age is an important criterion for women, especially for conception. Delayed age greatly affects the fertility of women, reducing the possibility of conceiving a child.

As much as possible, everybody should try and avoid late marriage.

Until next week when we'll come your way with another interesting Edition
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